Marriage proposal

Custom suitors is known under the name of: understanding, petitura, cut, guild masters impetit. La Petit part of the situation or the groom himself, when young, bold or groom accompanied by parents, godparents or friends.The groom went accompanied by their parents to love him if he knew if he did not know this young man had to send the petition before. Were spoken for good men or women mouth. The groom could lead accompanied by the parents, relatives, older people, older brothers or parents if not. In Neamt, first means young people between them, then went to the boy's parents of the girl with the boy. The groom could be accompanied by guild that can be represented by a lawyer, neighbor or relative, usually the nose future. When the girl's parents disagreed, and the youth fled, after a while the boy's family went to one of reconciliation. Went to the glass full of brandy and be honored if you reconcile, if not returned with full glass. In Botosani, it initially sends parents face with an elderly man from the groom's family (usually starostele). In Transylvania starostele is replaced is a telling an older man, good mouth that makes entry groom.
Bargaining demands:
Asked to marriage, there is dinner at the bride's house, were to parents of boy and girl and set her wedding day. Parents of the groom's daughter talked about the dowry, on faith (the engagement) and wedding, decided colcerita (cook), and general details about the wedding. In Transylvania, the White girl's parents came to the groom's house to get along to see where their daughter will live. Make a small table in the house where they were called bride and relatives. If the girl did not agree petita to marry that boy put as a reason that is too young, not ready or dowry is not enough money. If we mean, spend all the youth were asked to eat both a dish, sweet milk and pie wrinkle. The dowry for both sides drew up.Sometimes they did and sheet drawers in which each passed its share of dowry and weigh their contribution. Three to four weeks before the wedding is going to face.Talking, telling how they met young people and are holding some kind of sermon to be noticed, the dowry and the wedding, however took place around a table filled with food and drink. The menu for the meal consists of a petit honor to drink and something to eat: pie with cheese, bacon with corn, cabbage, cucumber acres, roasted meat, sausages with horinca, brandy, cake.
Habits after Petit:
-First Sunday after spots, meet parents and established the dowry; The moves to cutting: usually the bride and groom with mother went to her house and grab one of the cutting blades cotton shirts groom, of Socrates, and brother-in-law. then prepare meals for those assembled.
Although decision making is usually taken before the wedding, the petition is a formality favorable for two families to spend more time together.