Men have always head stupidity (they will not do favors **) that, butit never works. It is not known, but probably genetic information,that men are convinced that if a girl do a service, automatically, itmust follow from a great sympathy for them, even love and why not,sex. ** In fact, the opposite happens: The man makes the girlfavors all the time, and is convinced that for a meal at a restaurantthat pays him a ticket to the cinema, etc, to automatically have to fall at his feet - nothing not true (that in case of quality girls).
We do not say you do not have to be nice to a girl, on the contrary,but if you do, do it because you feel it, be natural, be nice withoutexpecting something in return, and then you and all chances ofconquer it.
conclusion:
- Avoid to do anything for a girl just to impress
- Avoid to fall into the other extreme: "I never do anything for a girl."
- Be balanced: "I do not service a girl because I want something in return, but because I just love to serve."
Try to be relaxed, be yourself, think that it is not the only girl in the world, and if you go, you always try again. Being shy, you should not inhibit, think that girls are shy, and they can feel just like you,just as they sometimes mask these feelings better.
If you feel that you do not succeed, do not try to overcome yourlimits, get over it, move on, do not let your desperation to containand think in one there will be other occasions.
conclusion:
- Be balanced: "This girl is very pretty, but there are many otherslike her and if she goes with, it is".
- Avoid thinking like: "This girl is one that I was doomed, it is the only and I will miss this chance" or: "I do not care what this girlthinks she can be easily replaced another, like a spare part. "
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