GOOD MANNERS

Basics of good behavior are foreseen when it was invented in ancient civic gesture space (agora, forum, theater) and his use of art, art oratory. The ancients put great emphasis on body movements, because they thought that by this individual expresses noble, spiritual perfection, gestures must follow a median line, to be neither slow nor very hot - and it actually explains the famous Roman saying: ? optimal mediocritas east?.Middle Ages came up with another theory? gestures were the expression of a reality hidden inside describing Mrs. persons, he characterized the soul, vices, weaknesses and virtues, while outside the body through a disciplined attitude, we can model human gestures can become better.Already feels that Divinity had influence on people - whether man is in a situation devoid of human company, however, is always supervised by God, and his gestures no longer concerns only others, but a transcendent, which he in turn gives people different signs.Thus, in that society where they wanted to create an order based on this massive Gods, with gestus, and Signum appeared due to the need of miracles, the miracles of the day. Naturally ordering function, moral gestures and lost the substance with the retirement of time and many of the gestures that governed society in that time have gained only metaphorical valence.Thus, today the sum of these gestures, added in the code of good manners, no longer a tool to deliver or to condemn an ​​individual, but is a means to communicate with others, is a feature to show sympathy and dislikes, to make contact with others around us without aggression, to pass through the world without disturbing others.Compared to the ancient and medieval times, when discipline, order, hierarchy was imposed by respect for the form, spirit, reason, it already sees a change in the sense that the focus moves on the field, body, passion.Thus, Descartes in his studies of the passions of the soul, not conclude that they maintain the soul, but passions are what the soul suffers and support, and in a manner similar Pascal argues that passions of love are feelings and thoughts that belong to the spirit itself although they are caused by the body.Undoubtedly, in contemporary society there can be no feelings and relationships based on genuine love that we want each of us if not emotionally involved in the act take into account what we call the code of good manners. Respect thereof shall constitute a fundamental prerequisite for maintaining a deep emotional relationship and therefore I recommend everyone to note that even though these small tips will not guarantee success in love? will still be a strong support in forming your personality. Good luck!